Christmas gift

I’ve lived over 38 years now, and that makes a lot of Christmases past. I remember many, and others not so much. What I’ve been thinking about this week is how they’ve changed. I guess more specifically, where have we put the focus.

I can remember not too many years in the past I lived the Christmas season full of stress. I worked a changing schedule, and so I was sometimes absent from Christmas morning. I had a small income, but let the commercialism of Christmas overtake me, and constantly worried about the right gift, and tried not to leave anyone out. Trying to control the worldly aspect of the season stole the joy from the spiritual essence of Christmas. No more.

At our best, we all grow up. We learn from hard experience, sometimes from kind words and deeds, and rarer still, from profound moments where everything seems to come into focus. I’ve been blessed to have all these experiences, and today, I don’t worry about the small stuff. It’s my responsibility throughout the entire year to let those I love know how much they mean to me, not through spending money once a year. I receive Christmas cards every year from people who don’t speak to me the rest of the months of the year, so are they driven by emotion, or by obligation? I used to be driven by the latter. Now, I try to share a hug and communicate much better than I did in years past. I have determined that’s what I’m meant to do. Put the advertisements, the guilt, and the stress of Christmas into its own box, wrap it tight, and never open it again.

I fail every year adhering to this plan. I catch myself wanting to give someone something they’ll never forget. I try to remind myself that giving ourselves is the best gift. When that’s hard, I remember the best gift I’ve ever received, and it was exactly that…a gift of a child, fully human, and fully God. Christ the Savior is Born. Merry Christmas.

Costly Free Speech

The rant of the day goes to the supposed Westboro Baptist Church, who insist that “God hates the USA,” “God hates soldiers,” and other ridiculous accusations that are sensationalistic and hollow to their very core.

I firmly believe the First Amendment, giving us the right to free speech, among other rights, is a foundational element of our way of life in the United States. It’s when persons intentionally exploit the limits, and become the unwelcome anomaly, that I take exception. The unfortunate irony in this situation is that the soldiers, past and present, that defend our nation on a daily basis and consistently bear the weight on our behalf, EARNED that freedom for us all, and the very ones who enjoy that quiet freedom use it to insult those same soldiers.

If that isn’t enough, the “church” also takes great joy in attacking homosexuals, our entire country, and now, Elizabeth Edwards. They announced today they would be present outside of the church where the service will be held to commemorate the life of Ms. Edwards, who dies this week after a prolonged battle with breast cancer. After this latest attack, it is beyond clear that the intent of these folks is to gain attention and create shock value to put themselves in the spotlight- very un-Christian I must say.

The Supreme Court is expected to rule sometime next year on a case brought against the church by the father of a Marine killed in Iraq, who was harassed as he attempted to put his son to rest. Let’s hope the decision comes sooner than later.

I think this situation offers several topics of discussion. First, what defines a “church” and when does it cross the line, and become a hate group instead? Second, where does free speech end? Last, how can we join together and ignore such stupidity? The “church” is composed mostly of family members of the so-called reverend that leads this group. They have made it well known that they love the attention. Is there a way to effectively discuss this issue, without giving it the repeated media attention? Let’s hope we figure it out.

In the interim, my prayers go out to those impacted by these despicable acts; and for those who commit them. Hate the sin, but love the sinner. That’s what Christians do.

Decoded

I just watched a show (recorded) on the History Channel called “Decoded.” After seeing the previews for this show, I thought it would be very interesting, as the host, Brad Meltzer, had apparently been given a sufficient budget and a cadre of brilliant assistants to research and explain some great mysteries. Exactly the kind of thing I’d love to do myself.

The excitement died inside of five minutes, as these well educated people started harping on conspiracy theories and made unsubstantiated assertions. We all know that television loves a good story more than it loves truth, but I had the thought that maybe someone as interested in solving great mysteries would be a logical and reasonable person.

In the interest of full disclosure, I am, and have been a Freemason for 12 years. This episode spoke at length about conspiracies concerning the Masons, and how they have a plot to establish a “New World Order.” I’m not a rocket scientist, but I could have easily disputed every argument made by so-called experts in their fields. The misstatements of fact were so numerous, I gave up trying to count them. Ridiculous fiction at best. At one point, they asserted that a member of the investigative team who was an attorney was a great addition to the team because he “gets lied to every day” and could be objective. Well, guess what, they’re adept at suggesting that lies are truth every day as well.

Anyway, this is my rant for today. Hoping for a program that would show some objective and reasonable research into a number of unsolved issues, I tuned in. I won’t waste my time again. I have seldom seen such a hack attempt at scholarly investigation. If you love made for TV drama, then give it a try. If you want to learn something, look elsewhere.